So Sad but so true

December 7, 2009

I was browsing through Facebook earlier and found this in my friend and colleague June rey’s profile. I just decided to repost it here. This really made me sadder when I realized that whoever wrote this has gotten it so right. Sigh…..

I ’ve finally realized the people that you love who don’t love you back are just another lesson in life… It’s like God is teaching us that there can be so much better than what we thought was the best.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance and realize that you still love that person.

How do you leave the past behind, when it keeps finding ways to get to your heart?

Our lives are shaped by people who love us and people who refuse to love us.

I know I’ve made a lot of stupid mistakes in my life, but the worst one was thinking that the person who hurt me the most wouldn’t hurt me again.

It’s easy to let go when holding on hurts so bad.

It’s sad to think you’ll never be mine, it’s even sadder to realize I knew it all the time.

Only the one that hurts you, can make you feel better. Only the one who inflicts the pain, can take it away.

Want my advice? Stay mad as long as you can ’cause once you stop, it hurts like hell.

The only thing standing between me and total happiness is reality.

That’s the most frightening aspect of loneliness…You think you’re being damaged while loneliness is happening to you, and the worry amplifies the pain.

I love sleep…my life has a tendency to fall apart when I’m awake.

My biggest fear is that I will become too comfortable with the idea of being lonely for the rest of my life.

Things are never what they seem, I’m stuck inside of someone else’s dream. Problems never go away … I’m sick of being caught in yesterday.

They say what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger. Well maybe some of us are just too sick and tired of being so damn strong.

In a world of pollution, profanity, adolescence, zits, broccoli, racism, ozone depletion, sexism, stupid guys and PMS, why the hell do people still tell me to have a nice day?

Sometimes I don’t know where the bullshit ends and the truth begins.

I pretend to be happy so I don’t have to explain myself to people who’ll never understand.

Some people are just not meant to be in your life no matter how much you want them to be.

Sometimes when one person is missing, the whole world seems empty.

Sometimes I wonder why words can mean nothing and silence can mean everything.

It’s just not the same when you wake up in the morning with a smile on your face when you know you lied yourself to sleep to make it better.

The loneliest place I’ve ever been wasn’t when i was alone.. It was in my room when i was in love with someone who wasn’t in love with me.

One of the hardest things in life is letting go of what you thought was real.

I’ve been broken before. I know what it feels like to see something funny and not be able to laugh.

There is no greater sorrow than to recall in misery the time when we were happy.

The saddest part isn’t that with each passing day I feel like I need you more, but it’s the fact that you don’t need me at all.

There is no sadder feeling in this world than to feel forgotten.

What do you live for.. When all you were living for is gone?

You may not realize it, but on the inside I’m crying. I may smile and laugh, but that’s my only way of hiding.

I’m trying really hard not to cry because every tear reminds me that I can’t let go.

Sometimes it hurts more to smile in front of everyone than to cry all alone.

And you know what the hardest part is? That now, when I cry, I don’t even try to stop my tears because I know they’re going to fall no matter what.

Even the softest words can’t heal the deepest wounds.

Silence is worse when you know it won’t be broken.

I hate listening to all these sad love songs because every single one of them reminds me of how much you hurt me.

Pretending that feelings aren’t there, doesn’t make them go away.

You can tell your heart to move on… it just sometimes won’t listen.

Being heartbroken is an agony. A complete, excruciating agony.
It’s like your heart is being ripped out of your chest and stomped on.
You can’t breathe, you don’t want to eat, you can’t function. It’s the
most intense pain you’ll ever feel, and the worst part is there’s no way
to relieve it. It’s unyielding, merciless torture. And you know it’s yours for life.

Why is it that no matter how much pain it endures by holding on… the heart refuses to let go?

Forgetting doesn’t make it all better; it just makes it hurt again when i remember.